How can you get over your ex when you still work together?

I broke up with someone I really cared about, someone who is smart, artistic, and has been hurt several times before me. I feel painfully sad and awkward every time I see him, because we slept together and I am embarrassed. Not because of him, but because of myself. I let things get to physical to soon without talking about being exclusive before doing the deed. Afterwards, I just didn't feel the connection I had hoped for with him, I felt let down. There is no hope in us getting back together, as he has said that I hurt him very much. We are both very artistic, and unfortunately, both have communication issues. How can a I heal from this when I still have to see him at work? (Transfering is no option)How can you get over your ex when you still work together?
The same way you get over any breakup, one day at a time. You act maturely and don't bring any drama into work. Try and stay away from each other as much as possible but if you have to work together be respectful and don't discuss your relationship. If you weren't feeling it, then you did the right thing. No point in dragging it on.How can you get over your ex when you still work together?
well unfortunately you are just going to have to focus on yourself and what you are doing and what goals you want to accomplish for you self as far as work is concerned and when you can go out with friends and meet new people, in some situations i have learned that the only way to get over someone is to meet someone else, and to not let your life go to hell because once your life is in shambles then you will still have to face this guy AND pick up all the pieces
You just make the best of the situation. I am working with a woman who started dating a man I liked and when I finally got a transfer and thought I could leave the building, I was told I was staying in the building and being transferred to the same unit as a woman who tried, and may have succeeded in having an affair with my now ex husband.





Just do your job, deal with it and try and get out of there ASAP.
avoid him as much as you can for now. eventually, just throw urself in work mode when u r at work and he wont be an issue. after all, hes not the one paying you.
Just ignore it you'll feel better if things are meant to be then it'll happen.good luck
Try not to work around him as much as you possibly can. Dont look at him or give eye contact.
There is only so much you can do, especially since you do have to work w/him on a daily basis. As most agree, try your best to avoid him of course, either turn your back to him when you see him coming your way, put your head down %26amp; be writing or busy if he comes by you, %26amp; if at all, turn your body away from him if you're seated near him. I'm sure it is hard for both of you nonetheless, but in time, you will get past it, Hopefully you'll both meet new people, go your separate ways %26amp; of course this would take he pressure off boh of you, ';Time'; that dear old word is the only thing that's going to do it for both of you. Staying out of one another's way unfortunately is the only thing that's going to be of help to you,,,best to you,,,:)

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Could you get back together with your first love,if hes in the navy and thats the only reason why you broke up?

My ex boyfriend and i went out for a little over a year, but we had the best relationship,we have a very strong emotional and physical attraction, people called us the titanic/The notebook. And he told me he was going to the navy,around the time we broke up he was a mess, he was working 3 jobs, going to high school, and living on his own, he didn't have a good relationship with his parents and he wanted to make it better with them before he left. And so that's kind of why he broke up, but mostly because were going to separate paths, me college him the navy. So he broke up with me, and that just killed me he broke my heart when i heard those words, it also broke his heart to see my heart broken, we cried that same night together for 2 hours straight, but he then took me back and told me that ';how could i let someone go who means So much to me,and cares about me so much, that would be stupid';but then a day later i asked him if this is what he wants, and he told me yes, and i was like are you sure, and he told me of course but i knew him, and i knew that, it wasn't exactly like that.So that night i broke up with him, because i knew inside he was struggling and i rather put him before my self, and have him get better, and get back on track, than to be with me, i mean that's how much i care about him, so i was willing to rebreak my heart for him, and he told me that i am the strongest person i have ever met for doing that because i did that out of pure love not because i wanted too.i feel like since we have been apart we have grown So much, and i just want to be with him, i love him, and it sucks that the reason we broke up was because we were going to different paths, not because we didn't like each other anymore or the relationship was bad....but do you think we could make it work?Could you get back together with your first love,if hes in the navy and thats the only reason why you broke up?
Of course it could work.


I was with a guy for 2 years.. we went off to college - far away - we didnt' officially break up- but, we married others.


20 years later, we are back together and married- because we are each others 1st loves , and he is the love of my llife, always has been.


Could you get back together with your first love,if hes in the navy and thats the only reason why you broke up?
Well my girlfriend dumped me for another guy and 5 years later she called me and I still liked her so I took her back, so stranger things have happened. It depends what he thinks, I doubt he is finding many girlfriends out on the open sea besides perhaps hookers that hang out at the docks so he's probably lonely by now, send him some sort of communication and see what he says, ie: say ';hey how are you?'; type of e-mail and wait for a response.
if you love him sweetheart give it another try you will regret if for the rest of your life if you don t go for it and good luck and don t listen to what anyone else says listen to your heart
yes if you guys really love each other it is possible

Would you get back with your ex in this situation?

Alright so one of my best friends and I went to our freshmen homecoming and it just led into one of the best relashionships I've ever had. We went out for 5 months and it ended really abruptly, and left me crushed. She never really wanted to talk to me and just a couple days ago I sent her a message telling her how I felt:





Theres one thing i want to ask of you and thats a second chance. Things ended out of nowhere and just left me wondering, like, what happened. I've tried to move on, and I think I would be able to if I could know that we didn't belong together but I know thats not true, right now at least. I've been laying in bed trying to get to sleep and this is all I can think about and if I try to forget memories come back stronger. I can just feel your arms around me sometimes like were back at the park the night of our first kiss and just things like that.





So this is the reply i got:





well....this is kind of difficult because that night that you and geoff came over screwed up my life. im not aloud to date until junior year and im still not alowed to hang out with friends i can only get on the comp one time a week unless for homework purposes. basically my life is living hell right now because i cant really talk to anyone and all this would make it like impossible to have a relationship for one and two i dont want to get into anymore trouble for a while... Sorry its just not easy with all that is going on right now...maybe when my parents possibly trust me maybe ill give you a second chance but idk how long from now that will be.





In case your wondering what the reference is, its was me and my friend snuck over to her house and her mom caught us and she got in trouble. So my question is if she genuinely wants to get back with me or if she is just trying to be nice?Would you get back with your ex in this situation?
We don't know her well enough to say...it could be either. Why don't you send her another msg and ask her straight out. Say you won't be offended if she just doesn't want to date you, but you'd like to know for sure. I think she'll have to courage to be straight w/you over a txt msg.





Good luck!Would you get back with your ex in this situation?
How thick are you? Respect her wishes and leave her alone. You've already gotten her in trouble why would you even take the chance of doing it again? Stop being so immature and grow up.
Sounds like she has been in trouble before, and the parents put the hammer down. If she has feelings they will be there when she gets her head on straight.


Same with you.
If you love the girl, respect her enough to leave her alone right now like she's asked.
let her be....if it is meant to be it will work itself out. if she cares for you she will come back.
She's telling you very clearly that you messed up her life and she doesn't want to be involved with you. Her parents came down hard on her because of her involvement with you and now she has to pay the consequences. It sounds like she's keeping close to home and is not willing to get involved with anyone right now.
Stay in loose contact, communicate with her, tell her you would like to resume your relationship with her when she is ready and able to.





From her response, she wants to keep the door open for you in the future and be nice as well.


You are both young so give it lots of time. If you are meant to be together, time will not interfere.

How can you get your ex back when he already has a girlfriend?

I love him and he does love me...ok? We broke up about a month and he kept saying he wasn't wanting to be in a relationship right now...well last friday we made love...but we still aren't together and he says he doesn't want to be in a relationship right now...well today on tuesday and at lunch he told me he had good news and some upsetting news...good news he got kicked out of the house with all his stupid friends...but he wouldn't tell me the ';upsetting'; news...It took like one guess then it came to me...he has a new girl friend. Now here's the problem I want HIM back. please help me!How can you get your ex back when he already has a girlfriend?
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Winning back an ex is not easy at all. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you take the right steps, and more importantly don't do the wrong things, your chances increase dramatically.





If you want to win your ex boyfriend back then these 3 simple steps should help achieve your goal:





1.The first tip is to get your head straight. You need to get rid of the negative thoughts. You have to stop feeling sorry for yourself. You have to be willing to be strong.





Don't let your emotion and especially depression keep you down. You can't achieve a goal, if you can't keep your emotions in check and your mind clear. Negative thoughts are destructive behavior and you don't want them..





2.Don't bother your ex boyfriend. Guys just don't like it when girls become obsessive about them. Especially ex boyfriends. You may want to feel better by hearing his voice or seeing his face, but if you really want him back, you must back off for a while. Don't continuously make phone calls to him, email him, or go to his place or where he hangs out just to see him. You want to give him time to realize he may have made a mistake. He may begin to actually miss you and want you back. If you blow it, you may have a tougher time getting him back.





3.Become an object of desire. If you can, it's recommended to get some new makeup. You will also want to get some new clothes and a new hairstyle. If you've picked up a few pounds, start exercising and try to eat healthy foods. When you look good on the outside, you're going to start feeling better about yourself on the inside. By feeling good on the inside you will be confident and happy. When you're confident and happy, you will project this image to others. You will become an object of desire to men, this includes your ex boyfriend.





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How do you get your Ex back?

I've been with this guy for 9 yrs., we have kids together, and I still DESPARETELY LOVE HIM!! I've been trying to get him to move back in with me and the kids, and he just keeps saying, 'WE'LL SEE HOW IT GOES';. What's that suppose to mean??? He tells me that he misses me, and he tells our kids that he misses me, sooooo....what's the problem?? I just don't understand why he can't give me a straight answer!! What should I do????How do you get your Ex back?
he sounds like hes stringing you along. he'll come back


if he can find noone else to put up with him. he knows


you're desperate and will keep you hoping he'll come


back. start concentrating on your kids and other aspects


of your lfe. put thoughts about him on the back burner,


life is about more than a man in your life. also, i hope


hes paying support for the kids. you shouldn't be


doing it all on your own. good luck!How do you get your Ex back?
Hello sorry to hear your in destress hopefully my input will help... I understand there are children involved but if I was u I would just go on with my life I know its hard but you expressed to him how u feel and ';chasing him'; will only push him further away.... As far as his comment ';well see how it goes'; I think he is either confused or he is looking at his options.... From experiance once I backed off he came back we since broke up 4 good but I did learn not to chase anyone and again u shouldnt either.... I dont know why u broke up so its kinda hard to give more of an answer good luck to u and I feel your hurt it sucks and I know my input is easier said than done but try takecare and good luck to you

Is it possible to get back together with an ex-girlfriend?

I'm 19 I broke up with my girlfriend of a year in late july. We both did alot of things to hurt each other during this break up. But we never stopped loving each other. She asked for me back the whole time. We decided to hang out one night and after that night I realised how much in love I still was with her. I didnt talk to her for about a week or two after that night so I could end things with the other girls I was seeing so that I could concentrate on her only. She was also starting to see some guy. We started hangin out things were great for about a week until her friends got involved in the situation and pushed her towards the other guy so from there I pretty much lost her but she kept in contact that she still loved me and that she just cant be with me right now. She is now dating this other guy but she is still in love with me? If anyone has any experience with getting back with an ex id really appreciate it !! Share your experience Id love your advice, wich steps I should takeIs it possible to get back together with an ex-girlfriend?
i am 19 as well, turning 20 very soon. i think our relationships are different in the simple fact that SHE broke up with ME, but still similar.





firstly, the friends do NOT have nearly as much power as you would believe, unless she is rediculously insecure. but if she were rediculously insecure, she would have taken you back the moment you started showing interest again.





its been a long time since july, and a year isnt THAT long of a relationship. its easily possible that she has goten over you by now, which would make it a real shame that it took you so long to want her back. but, especialy if this is the first guy she has dated since you broke up, its OK. your 19, and i presume she is roughly the same age, and a year is still enough time to develop a bond which cant be forgoten. she will be comparing every guy she dates even encounters, in the back of her mind, to you, even if its subconsiously.





ask yourself ';how could any other guy honestly measure up to you?';


let her date other guys. you should only talk to her seldomly, and only if she calls, and when she does, dont even mention other guys, simply have a conversation. if she can have fun talking or hanging out with you for a short time, she will want you around a little more.





its not really about ';what to do to get her back'; its more like, ';what you need to NOT do to ruin your chances that it will happen by itself';





its a little tricky, based on your story she hasnt permanantly labled you as a ';good friend';, but dont let that happen. dont let her confide in you when shes feeling down, dont be an ***, but skillfully avoid the situation.





the hurtful things when you split up might warrant an appology, but dont bring up any relationship issues, its in the past, let it go. dont try to justify behavior, assign blame, none of it.





back to the dating thing. think of it this way. you said you ended things with other girls you were seeing, so you were back in the dating pool, and it helped you to realize the girl you truly wanted. shes just starting to get back in the dating pool, and you need to just let the exact same thing happen to her. let her realize that she wants you back. women are not logical creatures, you cant convince them to do anything, it has to be their idea.





like i said, its all about ';not doing the wrong stuff'; rather than ';doing all the right stuff';

What would you think if your ex did this?

what would you think if your ex that your thinking of getting back together with left your favorite flowers on your front porch and had a note saying how much he still loves you attached to itWhat would you think if your ex did this?
If I really liked him I would run up to him and say ';Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! I still love you and I want to be with you - really honestly I do love you';


Hope it works,


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