Friday, August 20, 2010

How can you get your ex girlfriend back?

THIS IS WHY WE BROKE UP:


-bad @ directions. i'm a guy


-Forgot her favorite color, but got it the 2nd try


-Left ID @ club, and didn't want to pay for a new ID so I just waited and then it ruined our plans because I couldn't get into a club


-Didn't have passport in car, when she supposedly told me to put it there


-Didn't lock car doors. She hated that


-Texted her instead of calling like I said I would. Happened once


-Repeated myself, once


-Hung out with Ex-girlfriend. I had to give her back something and she asked me out to dinner and I agreed


-Tried to make her feel good with a compliment. She said I was being over-confident


-Being reactive, instead of proactive. I just live in the moment.


-I failed to know how she was feeling at ALL times. Honestly, that's impossible to do


-MOST IMPORTANTLY: Pushed for us to be together when she told me she was unsure and didn't think she was ready. In the end she finally told me she still had feelings for her ex and wasn't over himHow can you get your ex girlfriend back?
honestly it sounds like a lot of lil reasons that dont add up to much! I know a ton of women who wouldnt break up for things like this...





its called a relationship for a reason, and you learn and grow with each other...it sounds like many of the things that caused problems, you quickly fixed them when you realized they bothered her...





unfortunately i would say it has little to do with WHAT you did, but more of how she felt going into it...you said yourself that you pushed a little to have the relationship, and it seems that she wasnt really ready if she was nitpicking on you all the time.





i would say to not try to get her back...you probably need someone in your life that isnt going to be so demanding...(truthfully no one can know how others are feeling all the time)





if you walk away with dignity, she may decide she made the wrong decision...especially if you dont push her into a relationship again...but honestly i think you should let her go...and find someone else...either way...good luck...How can you get your ex girlfriend back?
ummm...if she still has feeling for her ex, y do u want her back?? u deserve someone that needs u as much as u need them. if u absolutely have to have her back try being her friend before u push for a relationship. it does not seem like u know a lot about her if u did so many things to annoy her. try calling her out of the blue and say u were just checking on her and making sure so was doing ok. surprise her by sending her flowers or some other gift, but do not call, wait for her to call and thank u. just try to avoid bugging her, but let her know u still think of her. good luck!
TRY AND STOP TRYING TO IMPRESS HER SO MUCH BE A MAN BE STRONG NO GIRL REALLY WANTS A GUY SHE CAN BOSS AROUND ALL THE TIME! AND EX-GIRLFRIEND THING STOP IF YOU REALLY LIKE YOUR GIRLFRIEND THEN YOU'LL MAKE SACRIFICES

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