How to get back together with my ex?

I know some of you think this is pathetic, I don't care. A while ago my girlfriend broke up with me. At first I couldn't belive it but I later excepted it. It's now been months, and I realize that I still have feelings for her.





I am asking you if i should bother trying to get her back, and if yes,I really need your help cause i'm not really the best with words when talking to a girl, so I am asking you what should I do or say.How to get back together with my ex?
Hello





Winning back your ex girlfriend is not easy at all. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you take the right steps, and more importantly don't do the wrong things, your chances to win her back increase dramatically.





Here are some steps that helped me to get my ex girlfriend back:





Don't Ask Her To Get Back Together





You should never ask her to get back together. Why? Simple, because her answer will be NO!





You're only shot at getting her back is to follow the right steps that will make her ask you to get back together. Maybe if you broke up with her, then you might be able to be the one who brings up the subject of getting back together. But if you can do it without, it would be much better.





But how do you get someone back without seeming desperate? In order to get your ex girlfriend attention, you have to show value without telegraphing your interest in her, while at the same time initiating interaction.





So don't ignore her texts and calls when they break up with you. It screams that you are so devastated by the breakup that you can't even handle talking to her. You want to respond to her, but do it in the right way. You can even initiate communication if you do it in the right way.


You have to maintain a strong frame of confidence, and show her that your happiness isn't dependent on being with her.








Don't Be Jealous





You must understand that ...SHE IS GONNA DATE SOMEONE ELSE. Let that sink in good. And not only is she gonna date someone else, it will probably be someone you know, maybe even one of your friends. Tough to swallow I know. It's ok if it bothers you, but don't let it show and don't call her out on it. Remember, you are not together anymore, and you don't have any right to tell her what to do.


If you do want to win her back, then you just have to weigh the decision.





Be Flexible





Do not be that stereotypical angry ex. Do not throw out their stuff or demand for them to come pick up their stuff right now. It's better to be flexible, easy-going and understanding. A person who takes things easily is an attractive quality in itself. It may inspire your ex girlfriend to start communicating with you again very fast.





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I hope you will get your ex girlfriend soon!How to get back together with my ex?
Should you try and get back together?





ABSOLUTELY!





The problem though in helping you figure out what to do or say, is I don't really know your situation, you know, and that makes a big difference.





The best advice I could give you is just be honest and open with her. Accepting the breakup is actually a big step, and will help you get her back.





I actually blog about relationship advice and how to help get your ex's back, so if you want to talk further I'd love to.





http://helpgetyourexback.info/blog/
If you still love her YES! I'm trying to get my ex back now too...and you can't be clingy......that will push them away. Give plenty of space...but let her know you still love her n such. Maybe...try hanging out just as friends...and try making a move on her and see what happens. Works with my ex....I'll get clingy...then back off and he'll want me back.
If u luv her youll find the words!!!!!! :)