me and my ex are friends, i would like to get back with him but he said his not ready for a commitment and wants to remain friends... he still tells me he loves me and misses me! anyway up until recently i used to always bug him about getting back together until i read something that if you just agree to the break up your more likely to get back with your ex... so i did!!!
we went out today and he would look at other girls and make comments like 'shes so hot'' or 'check out her ***'... which was hurtful but i didnt show it and just acted like a friend should!! by the end of the day he kept telling me he missed me and kept talking about the past.. he just grabbed me and made me sit on his lap then after i wanted to go somewere but he just laid on me and trying to go to sleep on me and kissed me on my chest... when we said our goodbyes he seemed kind of angry at me and hasn't texted me which he usually would have! am i succeeding in getting him back or have i made it worse :( please helpHow to get an ex boyfriend back????
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It seems like he's just toying with your emotion and is mad when he doesn't get his way... yerp
why do you want to commit someone who does'nt want to be in a committed relationship if friendship is what he wants then give it to him go forwards instead of backwards love is showed in so many ways and we tend to misread the definition of it here is the old saying if it meant to be then it will stay if it's not then let it go its own way and in your case let him be and move on he's not ready so enjoy your singleness and have fun he may not be the one for you.you have other options utilize them
thats messed up
how the hell he's gonna be checking other girls out when you're
RIGHT NEXT TO HIM?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?
n he making u sit on his lap and kissing ur chest aint really how friends act...
if he really did 'love' you he would do w.e it takes to be with you
n he wouldnt say such things... atleast not in front of you
%26amp; if he did it to make u jealous.. then he's a JERK!
plus he's mad at you? well if you had a bad day then yeah he would but if you guys didnt n he's acting that way
why do you want him back?
Your ex sounds like he is angry and hurt. Why did you two break up in the first place? Did you leave him for someone else? Or was the breakup mutual? If you left him, he may be afraid of losing you again and going thru that hurt again. He has to be able to trust you again. I'm just guessing.... It may be that he wants to be free to play the field, but wants to keep you on a string and waiting until he's ready to be a couple again. Just bide your time and see how things develop. You can't force the issue....so be patient.
He seems like not a very considerate boyfriend. Why would he make such comments about other girls when he knows how you feel about him?
He knows you are jealous because this makes him feel important.
I think you should ask him '; what kind of relationship you want to have with me ?'; Friendship? More than friendship?
Tell him that he confuses you when he says he wants to be friends yet he still gets physical with you.
Maybe, he can't get over you too. Maybe, he wants to have friendship with benefits without the commitment. If so, don't waste your time with him honey. He'll only see you as his option not priority.
To find out what he wants talk to him. Surely, he might not tell you the truth, but at least you'll his reaction.
I know that it hurts when your love goes away, but it seems that you've been putting too much pressure on him and nobody likes to be under pressure. By doing so, you might be pushing him away further.
So, don鈥檛 try to be in touch with your ex all the time. Rather than this, try to focus on yourself. Try to think about the possible causes of you break-up and if there was anything you could have done to avoid it. Obviously, it鈥檚 not possible to go back to the past but if you find the answers to those questions, you can change your attitude in the future. Focus on things through which you can become a better human being. Be sure that those changes in your behavior won鈥檛 go unnoticed.
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He obviously wants you back, and him commenting about other girls is just his way of seeing your reaction. Just be honest to yourself don't play games life's too short to waste your time. I tried my absolute hardest to get my exbf/ best friend back and I couldn't, you'll feel the pain soon enough if you don't start being clear about what you want from him. What's there to lose? Btw don't believe everything you read, just follow your heart.
Cheer up chick, come tomorrow he'll be all yours.
Let me know the results lol
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