Friday, August 20, 2010

How can u tell if your ex boyfriend wants you back ?

my ex and i was going out for 2 years and he said we was never going to get back together but he always told me that he still love me well lately we been talking like b4 when we was going out with out no fights thank god ,well im goin to his house next week to hang out but how can u tell if he wants you back ?How can u tell if your ex boyfriend wants you back ?
spread your legs and see if he takes the baitHow can u tell if your ex boyfriend wants you back ?
hi wat up my ex ride my bus and he flurt with me and others gurls on the bus and plus he have a gurl friend and he still flurt with me dose that mean he still loves me?

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You know what? He broke up with you but he was too chicken to do it completely so instead he kept you hanging on with that stupid line that he still loved you. If he loves you there is no question that he would be with you. Time to kick this guy to the curb and get out there and meet someone else. You don't know until you try.
The way he looks at you, the tone of his voice, the way he treats you and so on. Anyway simply ask him, look in his eyes when he answers you, you will see the truth.
As a guy, I can tell you that when guys ';suddenly'; start acting like they did before a breakup, it means one of two things. Either they want you back, or they want something else. The best way to see if he wants you back is too hang out with him, but don't let things even lead to kissing. If he really wants you back, he'll stick around anyway.
go and talk to him and ask him if you want to get back together.
When he says ';I want you back.';


(Or something to that extent)


Don't jump the gun, you could wind up looking like a moron.
If your feelings would be mutual, just ask him point blank.
Don't confuse friendship with love relationships. Y ou should not assuem the hanging out to be more than it is. Let him take his time and approach you in thatw ay since he is the one who said he wouldn't get back together. Even if theer was a hope of you getting back together it would be ruined because his mind would tell him taht you're not giving him his space and just can't understand. You need to be careful that he just doesn't want to sleep with you. Go slow, but if you want him, let him make teh move. It is important for men to know that they are controllign teh situation (even thuogh a lot of times women control it by allowing it to happen).
ask him
Usually when he tries to stick his hand down your pants. Or the 1 am booty call is always a good sign that he is still thinking of you...lol
so what if he does? he's an ex.. you've been there done that... go find a fresh one!
JUST ASK AND SEE THE OUTCOME
he'll probably say something like i want you back..but why go back? it obviously didn't work the first time, it probably won't the second. if you put spoiled milk back in the fridge for a week you might forget how bad it stinks but it will still be bad. people spend some time apart and only remember the good stuff, it seldom works that way though, once you are there for a little while you suddenly remember why it didn't work and how awful it felt the first time. you basically have a crystal ball here...you KNOW this relationship doesn't work, you already know what the future holds..why do that to yourself?? find one that might actually work out in the end. would you buy a car that you KNOW won't start?
when he say, ';hey baby, yous knows what? i was a total a$$hole, to yous and i is sorry i knows i says we was never going to be together again but yous gives me a chance and i loves to love you again';
One clue is if he's reminiscing; if he starts talking about specific times in your relationship,';Remember when we went to the lake...';,that's probably a good sign he wants you back. But keep alert, he's probably just after some sex. The best course (depending on how much you want to have sex), is to talk about getting back together, you can ask post-coitus, it's when we're most honest.
Ok a couple of clarifying questions.


Do you want him back? cause if you want him back it can color any action he makes as an invitation.


Why do you think he wants you back?


And if he does want you back were there enough great things about the relationship to make the effort?
girl who cares if he does, hes ur ex for a reason move forward not backward
HE'LL BE ALL UP IN YOUR GRILL AND ACTING ALL SWEET TOWARD YOU. IF YOU TALKING TO ANOTHER DUDE HE WILL FIND SOMETHING TO MAKE YA'LL BREAK UP.
he might miss sleeping with you but thts it.
something happened to make you break up....why would you want to go back and get hurt again....there are others out there...move forward,not backward
the question is do you think it is wise for you to get back together i mean if you were arguing before there is only a matter of time before you start having the same problems you had before. in my opinion it would be in your best intrest to move on but remain friends with him.
i`ll say that if he wants you back then he should tell you something, if he dosent then you can tell by the way he looks at you and the way he talks to you....also all the things he tells you is so important
He probably justs wants to have sex! If he wanted you back he'd tell you. You've been together for 2 years, he is probably very confortable with you and has no reason to be shy now. He's a ex. He's your past.. keep it there!
who break with who? if u guys talk real cool now then before thats normal. just when ur going 2 his house next week talk about how u guyz use to do this and it was fun and how he answers u would know more and more i hope it works out bye
ask him
ask him????????????????
yea hes gonna want to skrew u but dont confuse that for wanting u back
Chances are that he wants you to come over so you will give into him. Were you two sexual? IF yes that is what he wants.

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