Friday, August 20, 2010

How to get your ex back if she's dating someone right now?

Hi everybody,





I'm just a little stressed out right now and needed everybody's advice? Here is the situation ok. I been dating my ex for about 7 years, she left me for someone that makes more money. She told me that dating this guy is like hitting the lottery because he makes a lot of money. I left her alone with this new relationship she thought was everything. Two months has passed and she called me and said she wanted to see me and how I was doing. We met and she talked about how a jerk and jackass this guy was and that he treated her just like any other girl and always neglecting her. She tells me this guy treat her like crap and always puts her down and that she missed how I treated her like a princess. We cuddle like old times and I kissed her cheek and forehead like how I always do. She said she missed it and said the new guy doesn't show any affection towards her at all. We spend the whole day together and she slept over that night and we made love. She said she can't stand this guy anymore and that she will breakup with him and that she wanted to get back with me. So the next day roll around after she talked to one of her friend that convinced her to stay with this guy because he makes a lot of money and that it will get better later on. Now she's telling me that she will stay with this guy and said she just needed to be patient.





So my question is how do I get her back and make it work in the long run where she won't do this again, how do I make her regret what she did, because I don't want to see her hurt any longer and being treated like nothing. I love this girl very much and would risk my own life for her. Thank you for taking the time to read this and any answers would help.How to get your ex back if she's dating someone right now?
3 steps that can have your ex begging to come back to you.





The first thing to do is agree with the breakup. Let them know you think it is in the best interest of you both to take some time apart. Do not try to argue or prove any type of point here. Just tell them you agree and that you both need some time to yourself.





The second thing to do cut off all contact for at least a week. Do not answer any phone calls or text messages. If you know your ex is going to be in a certain place, make sure that you are not there. No matter what they do to try and contact you do not give in. They are human to and will be curious as to what you are up to.





The last thing to do is get back to being yourself. Leave the pity party at home and get out of the house. Have some fun with some old friends you have not hung out with in a while. Go do the things that you used to do before you met your ex. Your ex will hear very quickly that you are out and it seems you are moving on. They will wonder how you were able to just move on so quickly especially since you were the one that was broken up with.How to get your ex back if she's dating someone right now?
A lot of people believe that there are ways for getting your ex back!


There are some things you can do or not do that will increase your chances of getting back your ex.


Here is a great website on how to get your ex back: http://www.exbackguides.com/
Listen to the song ';I cant make you love me'; by George Michael
She became your ';ex'; for a reason - now stop %26amp; remember those reasons - snap out of it dude for truly this to shall pass+
Forget her, just move on and realize that there are many better ones out there then her. She wanted him cause of his $$ and so again forget her you didn't deserve that.
Let her go. Shes messing with your head and the other guy. Don't be one of those people
if that were me id be bitter and say Oh well you had me and lost me goodbye. ..well the easyest way to get a girl to lower her guard is to reminded her of the good times both of you had , funny stories songs etc


and then ask somthing like '; and hav u had fun like that with ur new man?';





short answer : make her associate feeling good with you around good luck
thats love right there. you need to tell her that the way you feel maybe get her out to dinner and find out who the friend is and tell her how much better you are than the other guy and maybe she will realize who is really best for her friend. if you want to break them up now then i suggest telling the guy. but that will make her angry. and maybe suggest getting a higher paying job for her. and i wouldnt be with her if it is just for the money. money cant buy love. like thats silly. if you treat her so nice and she doesnt show anything back then thats a sign she cleary doesnt want you wwhich is really hard to face when your in love. i am sorry about this. you are the right guy for her.
Sounds like me. Stupid rich jerks should leave other guys girls alone.





What you need to do, it just live like you have been, and act like it's no big deal, if that's what she wants, then ok.





He will mess up, he won't treat her right, it won't work. Might take a month or two, but this guy is gone.





You just have to hold out and don't do anything that will look like you want her.





Just be there when it's time for this guy to go bye bye and you to come back.





I can't believe her stupid friend convinced her to stay with a jerk. That's not a friend.





You can win this. I hope in the next week or two.
You sound like a really sweet guy and this girl is playing with your head. You deserve better!!! Not only did she do something shallow and leave you for someone who has money (obviously money isn't everything or she'd be happy!) but she's keeping you within reach by sleeping with you and telling you she misses you. That's really terrible of her to do. Let her go and find someone who deserves a great guy like you sound like. She'll find out that he's a jerk and the lottery she hit allowed her to win the a$$hole jackpot! They deserve each other!!!!
Why would you want someone who left you for a man with money and now is telling you she wants you but is still goes back mr. money bags? Why fight for someone who truly doesn't love you? If she did, then money wouldn't be the final factor for her to pursue a relationship. She will leave you again if you take her back. Don't try to ';make'; someone love you. Your just setting yourself up for failure. Leave her alone and start dating other women before she comes knocking on your door claiming your the father of her child. I've seen it happen way too many times.
she needs to be patient or you?





I think you should leave her alone for the obvious reason


she's dating someone and that person makes a lot of money..


you should know how it goes


when she is happy with someone else


whatever you do won't get passed her ears...


He influxed her with with love and


enough to get her eyes blinded and her ears deafened and turns away from your crying soul...





Move on!





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you obviously love her very much if your willing to share her with someone else, i would be in agony if the person i loved was with someone else, i suggest you give her an ultimatum to not come knocking at you door when she needs love and affection cuz your not her doormat...if she chose money over you then i suggest you move on
First of all, i am sorry you are in pain. It is not the love that hurts, but the UN love. Let this girl go--if she is yours, she will come back to you. If not, then she belongs to someone else, and to have her back in your life would be stealing, and you don't want to steal.

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