How to make your ex fall BACK in love with you?please help..10 pts.?

Ok, there's this guy that i dated for a month or so, and it was long distance, but i knew him in real life and saw hiim every month or so.


I broke up with him, and he was so upset. He kept calling me and everything, for the next 2 months. I then saw him 2 months later, and i fell for him hard. He had a gf, but he said he would break up with her for me because he loved me. We would text everyday all day, and then he told me he couldn't be with me. He led me on. Things quickly got resolved, and he broke up with his gf and started texting me, and he wanted to hook up. But he would still say he loved me. We hooked up and it was actually romantic, with kissing and all. But he said we needed more time before we got back together.


One day, he totally stopped talking to me. He got his phone taken away, and we didn't talk for a month.


When he got his phone back, he told me to lose his number because we needed time apart, although he called and texted me later that week.


We then got in a huge argument, which was my fault, for about 3 weeks. He wouldn't accept my apology, then one day he randomly did. He began asking to hook up again, and it wasn't romantic anymore.


This weekend, i drove to his house and we hooked up. He texted me yesterday asking if i got home ok, but then just stopped replying. He hasnt responded since yesterday afternoon, even when i ask if hes mad. Sometimes, our phone's don't deliver text messages from each other, so i don't know if he's getting them.


I'm still so in love with him, but he's not so much with me. He usually goes in on and off phases with me..but i want him to come back to me permanetly. What should i do?=(How to make your ex fall BACK in love with you?please help..10 pts.?
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You really love him. You will do anything for him . i can tell. tell him how you feel. dont give up until he listens. even if he doesn't feel the same way let him know that you thought he should know. he probably feels the same way. hes most likely confused.
Maybe you guys can married this month. Or wait, maybe next month. No, no. The month after that!





**** all that. Get you a new man.
If you two broke up once, it's bound to happen again. Also, don't dwell on past relationships, move on and find the person you're meant to be with. Hope this helps.
You can't always go back and sometimes you just have to move forward. You shouldn't accept being treated like a booty call and if that's the way he treats you move on.
Keep your priorities straight.
Everything after the first question mark is moot. Don't go back out with an ex.
I think you have too much drama in your life. Go hang out with a friend, go bowling, eat some McDonalds or something. Geez..
NEVER move backward. it ended for a reason.
ok all i had 2 read was the 1st couple of sentences to know that your an idiot
alright i read it all and here is my conclusion:














you are a fukcing jackass








hope this helps
its over you blew it forget him and move on thats it
wow, im going through the same exact thing actually. and my best advice i could ever give is to pretend like you have it all together and that you are in control. tell him how you feel because maybe he feels the same way but is afraid to admit it, so if you speak up maybe he will say something.love is complicated but the key to being a woman is acting like you have everything in the bag. so good luck with your boyfriend or ex or whatever but listen girl, if all this doesn't work, maybe you should try being friends for awhile and let some of the pressure go,then eventually if its meant to be it will fall into place.(: peace*tristan*
...Well, why don't you ask him why he hasn't been replying or something, straight ahead? tell him seriously, ';can we get back together yes or no?'; According to what you've said, i think he has something else on his mind... are you sure he broke up with his gf or something else that could be distracting him?.. well, in any case, you can't really ';force'; a person into loving you but what you CAN do, is only be yourself, and try to show him the best of you... good luck.:)
You, my dear, are being PLAYED.





When he's not ';getting your text messages'; he's avoiding you.





When he doesn't respond, it's cuz he's with his girl.





When he got his phone ';taken away'; it's cuz his girl found out something and he had to give it up.





Sorry, get a new man.
He sounds bipolar.. Just come right out and tell him that this relationship can not continue unless he makes up his mind. He's ether with you or not. He can't keep going back and forth. I know you love him right now but if he keeps hurting you it could screw up any relationships you may have in the future. Never hang on to someone that unstable..you'll fall...
Ok so you need to stand up to him, call him or go to his house. U need to tell him you need to talk. When u talk you need to tell him you dont want to be played around with. That u are in a hard situation and need his shoulder to lean on. U can tell him you need him to make a choice and at least answer your replys, as friends at the least. Tell him if he needs time, than to just be freinds. Tell him you love him, and want him permanantly, not in phases and bits and pieces.
You should get over it. I don't mean that in a rude bitchy way either. But seriously, slap yourself in the face and understand you deserve better than that. If you can't understand that, and continue to talk to him and accept they way he treats you and the messed up relationship you two have then........ slap yourself again, and re-read what I wrote. lol
Wow! What an ';on-again-off-again'; relationship. Makes it tough for either of you to feel the potential for any certainty in starting a new relationship. I know you probably want some special answer but it occurs to me you need to demonstrate TO YOURSELF that you can be constant. So start with accepting yourself, as you are, warts and all. If you can learn to love and accept yourself, without judgment, then you will be able to have a relationship with anyone. But you will also find you are only attracted to those who are comfortable with themselves. You are unique, special and wonderful. If he can't see and understand that, if he can't see what a special person you are, you don't want to waste your time with such a dimwitted jerk.
drama drama drama, that story wore me out just reading it. He likes you or else he wouldn't still be messing with you. You are just as fickle with him as he is with you so you too must be a perfect couple, haha. Sounds like this behavior is the norm for both of you, so I don't know what advice to give. Maybe be happy you have him at all, I don't know. I get the impression he'd probably bore you and lose your interest if he just liked you and dated you without all these complications and outside influences, maybe I'm wrong I don't know. He probably is the same way with you so maybe make him chase you I guess. If you offer yourself too readily, maybe that bores him. I don't know, I never was one that liked playing games or chasing, but everybody's different.
boys will be boys. i think that he does like you but he has problems getting close to someone. That or he is using you for what you give him if anything. but i had an ex boyfriend that keept coming back and every once in a while he will pop back up. I really think that he starts to get close to you and gets scared of what might happen. Wait till you see him again and ask him wants up. If it starts to get into fighting, then stop with the questions and say ok i was just wondering. I hope what i tell you works. Good luck!!
look gurl...now...sry for loss and all...but to get a homie back u gota do a few things aight.





1) you need to get ur hair did...that natty mess aight flyin no mo


2)send some naked pics (make sure u get a nice wax done guys arent down with jungle muff)


3) get some spicy new threads aight


4) yo ride...it aint b cute...looks like the krakken been in there floppin around


5) and this is the most important...whisper som sweet nothinz in his ear...guys like it!





hope this helps!...if i dont...find yo self a dark a fella...they treat u nice aight as long as they get some meat if u no what im spittin