How do u ask your ex to get back together with u?

It depends on the situation.





If they've just broken up with you, it's very unlikely they'll say yes unless it was a really stupid thing to break up over, or if you have done wrong, you must show them that you recognise what you did and that you will absolutely change in your ways.





If you've just broken up with them, you could probably just come right out and say it -- but if they're angry at you, expect a negative. But if they're likely to say yes, then make sure you explain to them why you made the mistake of breaking up in the first place; or, if you broke up for a fault on your spouses part, you can ask them not to repeat that mistake! The important thing is to make sure your previous experiences won't tarnish the new relationship.





If it's been a while, then it mostly comes down to whether you think they still like you or not -- and that's a question no-one but he/she can answer. And even then, it's a simple matter of letting conversation lead you into the topic -- wait 'til you're alone together, bring up your past relationship, and if the signs are right, why not try suggesting that you 'give it another go'? Or, ask them directly -- Would you like to get back together with me?





There's no real veiled secret to getting back with an ex; you just need to make sure they still like you and would be willing to get back together with you..