I need a married person's advice, if you did it, how did you ever get back together with your ex? ?

For those of you who have gotten back together with an Ex, how did it happen, and how did you get back together with them? What did the two of you do that you got back together. If they dumped you, and you got back together, how did it happen, how did you get back together? I know its not impossible, but if you've done it, whats you're story, how did it happen for you, what did you to do to get back together, and what would you say one should do to get back with their Ex? My Gf and I dated for 8 months. But about 3 months ago, it was a stressful time for both of us. She called it off, said it wouldn't work out between us. But since then, I'm the only guy she see's or hangs out with. She still hangs out with me and talks to me. Really nothing has changed since we dated. I still love her, and I feel she still likes me, why else would she still stick around. I want to start it back up with her, I don't feel we ever really split up. But she called it off, so I know she has to start it back up, But I don't know what to do. I want a married persons opinion, because you've made it through the up's and downs of dating. Your advice please!I need a married person's advice, if you did it, how did you ever get back together with your ex? ?
Being a married person who went through a similar situation, you have to do two things. The first thing is that you need to find out what the relationship means to her. What I mean is, have her define the relationship because it sounds like there is a case of two people viewing the same relationship differently. The second thing that you have to do is continue on with your life. Before I married my husband, we got into a big argument and did not talk for 2 months. The first two days I was devastated, then after that I continued on with my life. Now mind you we lived next door to each other. For some reason, you become more attractive to a person when you continue with your life and make like they do not exist. he ended up begging me to talk to him and 6 months later we got married. That was 6 years ago! Good luck, if it is meant to be with this lady and she is the one, things will work out!I need a married person's advice, if you did it, how did you ever get back together with your ex? ?
Ask her. . .';What are we doing?';





When you say nothing has really changed. . .are you still intimate? If so, then you have every right to ask her to define the relationship.
time and patients its hard but maybe she not ready for anything yet but she just don't know. i would just keep beaning her friend and see what happens.
Communication, communication, communication!!!! Talk to her about how you are feeling, find out the nature of your relationship (don't assume ASK her) and then go from there. If you guys broke up if it is possible find out why so that problem can be corrected on worked out. Yes it is possible to get back together with an EX. My husband and I had some really hard situations to get over we were headed towards divorce, as a matter of fact I am supposed to be in court this very second for the final judgment on us getting a divorce. But our marriage was saved through the love that we had for each other. Many of our issues resulted from poor communication and assumptions. So a relationship can be saved with an EX if both of you are willing to change and communicate effectively.
my husband left me and i was devestated.... i called him 100 times a day, crying, begging, bribing... even let him over just to have sex and watched him walk out and leave again minutes after we were done.... i thought he would NEVER come home... so after months of crying and begging him, i decided to do the oppisite... i didn't call him, i waited for him to call me (which he did) and when i answered i had a 'happy' voice and told him 'oh, im sorry, i cant talk right now, im busy, can i call u back?' well, 15 min later he was knocking at the door.... i told him i had a date and he couldnt stay, shut the door in his face and didnt answer his calls..... well the next day he was standing at the door with his cloths. and 2 dozen roses.... so basically act like you don't care and she will :)
From reading your question, it sounds like she wants more out of this relationship then youre willing to commit to or want at this time. This may not be your fault but it definitely sounds to me that she wants more or to move to the next level whether shes ready or not. By breaking up shes forcing you into something or someplace youre not ready to go yet. All relationships have their up and downs but its these situations that actually make a relationship stronger if its true love. If it isnt then the roller coaster falls off the track, never to recover. True lve is neither physical nor romantic. True love is the acceptance of all that is, has been, will be and will not be. So if your love is true and pure, then go get her back and hold on for the ride of your life, thru all life has to offer, expecting the up and downs but that life does get easier with time. Good luck