If you got back together with your ex after 2 years would you want to know if they had been with someone else?

Im getting back together with my ex after we broke up for a two year period. We found we both still had feelings for each other and that we had both grown and learned from the reason we broke up in the first place. Part of me makes me want to know how many guys shes been with since me, I know it will only hurt, but in a way I feel its something necessary to know. Would you want to know?If you got back together with your ex after 2 years would you want to know if they had been with someone else?
Not a good idea. First off, it's none of your business. Second; If she does answer you'll probably start pouting, which will result in fighting. If she doesn't answer you'll probably start whining, which will result in fighting. Asking this question is lose-lose. If you are serious about rekindling this romance, leave it alone.If you got back together with your ex after 2 years would you want to know if they had been with someone else?
No, you are just asking for hurt, and fuel for future arguments (was he better, why don't you go back to so-and-so). If your feelings are strong enough to get back together again, just pretend that the 2 years haven't even happened and cherish and build new memories as a couple. Were you an angel and didn't date while you two were separated, did you do anything you may not want to confess to her? Think long and hard before either of you ';fess up';. Good luck and God Bless.
The short answer to you is 'yes, I definitely would'. Certainly I would discuss this with them with a very open mind. I would like to hear whether they still had feelings for this other person before getting very involved again. That would be my main reason for discussing this. I think it is also important not to judge or make your ex feel uncomortable like they are being put through a quiz. I would be very honest about why I want to know the facts. Best of luck!
Thats a hard question that i have wondered as well.





I don't think i'd want to know. If i was attached to that person it would just break my heart to know they had slept with someone or soemthing. If you have been with people then perhaps telling each other won't be so bad since you've both been with people. But then again, you won't know unless she tells you first lol.





If you want everything to be out in the open then figure out, but if not.. just try not to think about it
No i would not because it has been 2 years its just not that important to me i guess as long as they were with me i wouldn't care. Like if my ex came back to me i would not ask him who he had been with i would be the happiest girl in the world he came back to me. if she wants to tell you then fine but don't come out and ask.
Well my ex and I did the same thing and I asked him and it bothered me so much I felt like he had cheated on me even though he didnt. If I could go back I would have rather not known but at the same time the question would linger in my head. I would ask but be prepared to hear what you dont want to hear. 2 yrs is a long time. So if you think your strong enough to hear it and deal with it then ask.
Don't' go there. Like you said it will hurt your feelings. I asked that question to my ex and its a BIG no-no for you see the peeps that she's been with and all, it will make you feel awkward. In my case it did to see the ladies he was with. That's why ex's are ex's.
well in a sense .. yes, because i'm a very curious guy .





and in a sense .. no, because that's her business ..





but if you two are having a conversation and the past is brought up .. ask her ';Out of curiosity .. how many men did you see while we were broken up ?';





but only do it if your comfortable ..





take care and good luck !





-andre
It's been 2 years, sorry but of couse she's been with other men. It's only natural. It really is of no concern to you, nor is it really any of your business. Truthfully, it will probably only cause fights. My vote is don't even mention it.





Personally, I wouldn't want to know.
I would be curious to know but nah.. good possibility she has been with other guys like Im sure you been with other girls. It was her business who she was with, she wasnt with you at the time so it shouldnt matter, you still love her right? so dont let that be an issue.
No. Leave that in the past. The only thing you have to do is make sure that you both get tested because you will want to be safe and protected. Other than that leave everything else where it's supposed to be....in the past.
It's probably none of your business, but curiosity will get the best of you...you will ask...she will tell you she's been with 2 or 3...the real number is probably around 10 to 15...and you will be upset...
NO, Thats just another excuse to have an argument. You guys should just get tested and just let yourself be happy and look to the future.



in a way i would want to know but i would never ask cuz every time we lay down at night to would bug the crap out of me thinking that he is comparing me to some one he was with recently
no i dont think you sho霉ld ask i mean like you said it will only hurt you and nothing good could really come of you knowing
Yes. You should def. ask. Your restarting a relationship with him...and you should know what he has been up to for the last 2 years.
You have to take into consideration.


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I would already assume that she was.
Some things r best left in the dark
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