******PLEASE HELP WITH THESE QUESTIONS.. ITS URGENT ABOUT GETTING TOGETHER WITH YOUR EX TO FIX THINGS!!!!!?

lets say that your partner and yourself seperate... now you guys have been seperated for along time... she meets new people and you meet new people and she gets into some relationships with other men...





now you guys see eachother again and you fall in love... in my heart its like i love this girl so much that her past doesn't bother me... but when im alone i think of her sleeping with other men and i become sad... how do i get over the fact that she's been with other men.. i really love this gurl and we decided we wanted to get our family back together.. i have 2 young boys by this woman... please please help******PLEASE HELP WITH THESE QUESTIONS.. ITS URGENT ABOUT GETTING TOGETHER WITH YOUR EX TO FIX THINGS!!!!!?
she probably feels the exact same way - perhaps she too is thinking about the fact you've been with other women





you don't say how old you are but i think you need to realise in today's world sometimes a girl doesn't have just 1 partner anymore. instead of letting it eat you up inside why don't you sit down together and talk.





i'd recommend couples counselling as well******PLEASE HELP WITH THESE QUESTIONS.. ITS URGENT ABOUT GETTING TOGETHER WITH YOUR EX TO FIX THINGS!!!!!?
I think the best thing is to Apologize for whatever you did wrong and tell her how much you are in love with her. Maybe you can buy her something such as flower. I think if you want to get back with her you have to make a commitment to change whatever you done in the past and tell her you are ready to make you relationship with her serious. if it works you have to move slow , not rush it. And you need to marry her because you have two kids by this lady. GOOD LUCK!! I hope I helped you!
You are saying above that you BOTH met new people. Did you really expect her to just sit and wait for you while you met new people? Does she sit around moping that you slept with other women? No? Then you need to get over it and work on putting your family back together. If you can't, don't even try and hurt those children to do that-go straight for divorce court because that is where you will end up unless you let that go-particularly since it was a mutual thing.
forget the past is the past forgive her, think about the children and how happy t5hey would be that their mommy and daddy are together and they dont have to have step moms and stepdads and all these difernet confusions. stay with her and try your very best not to think about wat she has did. if this thought comes again turn on the tv or think about something else








i hope you to work things out
You need to see if you really can forgive her- that means in the future not throwing things in her face- and her doing the same to you. Every relationship has problems, a lot have had cheating spouses. You need to realize that you guys were not committed at that time, and it was not a breach of trust, as at that time you owed each other nothing. Good luck! I hope it works out!
Try not thinking about the bad stuff that happened between you guys cuz then ur gonna be separated in no time ( remember whatever she did u probably did it 2) think about the happy times u guys spent together, think about your kids and everything will be alright.
Maybe you can make a party for her. You can have banners at a dinner restaurant and have your kids there too. I am sure if you just tell her, things might be better. Or at least tell her what you feel.
If you can't forget the past then there can be no future; so just for the sake of the kids; settle for being a dad to them;and a friend to their mother
when ever you think of her sleeping with other people just remember that you love her and you have probly slept with other people also and if she was your first and only sex partner then you are probly ment to be togeather.
You split for a reason, think about that first.


She'll probably be thinking the same about you too.


And do either of you expect that after being split for a while neither of you would see other people?
Well if you really love this women then you will look righ past her past and live your lives tgether with no regret. If you still think about her past then its only gonna come in fights and cause alot of problems!!!!
youve been with other women haven't you? ?


get over it and get back with her!





hopefully both of you have matured and it can work out this time


GOOD LUCK
Dont get back with an ex.
Hi Mike





First of all i'd like to say, bril that u%26amp;yr ex r getting it on track again! Mike when a relationship breaks down (as yours did) we go our seperate ways and things do happen. I am a firm believer that things happen for a reason. Ok, u don't like the fact that yr partner has bn with other guys but she probably doesn't like that uv been with other women, so it works both ways. But the main thing is u both aren't doing that anymore so thats a step in the right direction. Hav u never stopped to think that all that crap was a learning curve, something that had to be done to make u both realise that it all meant nothing and all of that sleeping with other people has actually brot the two of u back together again. As the two of u have come to terms of the fact that there is no one else out there for u other than yrselves? Mike these things have to be experienced in order for us to learn, realise wot we had in the beginning and the grass wasn't really that green. So, give it some thot and i'm sure ul find it in yr heart and mind to get over as it really wasn't that bad, so what u's had a few partners, it wasn't the end of the world





Mike I wish u%26amp;yr partner all the luck in the world and hope evthing goes well for u both and yr sons





All my luv Magsxx