Get back together with my ex by ignoring him?

I've read countless advice columns which advise the best way to get back together with your ex is by not contacting him, and keeping your distance. But I ignored my ex for a month, only to be ignored back. He only contacted me once I contacted him. Since then he's been phoning me every day. We talk mostly about our relationship, what went wrong, and how I want to get back together with him. Maybe I seem desperate. But I don't understand why it's so inappropriate to tell him I love him. That's why I want to get back together with him. And that's why I want him to get back together with me. I wouldn't want him to get back together with me because I'm presenting him with a challenge. How will manipulating him into believing I stopped loving him help my situation?Get back together with my ex by ignoring him?
Marie dear , you are simply putting some problem into your life.There is a saying quite popular that is ...What you give to others is that what you will receive from them and it applies to everyone.





Usually a relationship will need a break for realigning things in your relationships and its quite common.But challenging each other to give in to make each other more important is like fueling for a destructive end of the relationship.





So stop putting yourself ahead in a relationship and try to work for a mutual success which should be the destiny for any relationship failing or ignoring may relate for earlier break ups.Get back together with my ex by ignoring him?
It's not manipulation, it's giving someone else the space they need to realize what they want. If that person actually wants you, they'll realize it when you're not around. If whatever you're doing works for you, do it. There's no rule book when it comes to relationship, but a lot of people shoot themselves in the foot by pestering the person they want to be with because they're scared if they're not right in their face, they'll move on.





Again, if what you're doing seems to be working, keep it up.
Good question, Marie.


I was gonna post the same question here now as I'm in a similar predicament. For me and him, it's been three days only but it feels like three god-awful years. :( He has not contacted me, and I'm biting my hand from contacting him.


I know how you feel, it can't be great.


I wish I could help, but I'm sorry I can't. I will be coming back here to read what advice others will be offering you though.





Good luck to you and to me.
You love him and that's why you want him to get back together with you? I'm sorry, but that sounds very selfish. You've already told him you love him and discussed why you split up. Now stop playing the games. He can decide if he wants to be with you without you ignoring/manipulating him. May not happen as soon as you want, or maybe not at all, but you'll have your answer sooner or later..
Tell him you love him, see what happens. Men dont play games, they want to know exactly what you want or you'll never get an answer.