he still has feelings for me cuz he is still acting the same way around me and i can tell he does.
we still text eacother but i start it usually. and we talk on the phone (he calls me). he says that we could be ';friends with benefits'; but that means that once he found someone else that he liked, he could drop me and go for them. and i don't want to do that. i know that he wants be together again, otherwise he wouldn't have brought that topic up.
i just need to know how to ask him to back together with me. i don't want to sound desprate and i don't want to sound like i'm being forced to do it either.How do you ask your ex to get back together with you???
not worth it, find someone betterHow do you ask your ex to get back together with you???
';friends with benefits'; I think that's just code for him just having sex with you without having to do the work of the relationship like he had to before. Do you really love him, or are you just lonely? Is there something there worth saving that will benefit you too?
First of all do not become a friend with benefits, thats a very nice term for sex buddy.
then think to yourself do you really want to be with a guy who is asking this of you? If yes then, just say it straight out. ';Do you think if we tried again it would work?';
See what he says, good luck.x
Tell him that you guys were never separating but going througha faze and u should have pulled things together instead of splitting and if he still has feelings for you,REUNION would be a better option than benefitting,cos you dont wannabe used as a sustitute to be hung on before he finds the girl of his dreams! Next time the topic comes up,chip it in and talk in a gentle tone,sound mature,not sad or angry or eager and dont sound too available.
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