How did you get back together with your ex?

I was dating this guy for about 4 months and finally broke it off the other night because he wasn't willing to move forward with the relationship - just wanted to keep dating casually.





He didn't attend family events with me and didn't plan ahead for dates or even special holidays.





So I ended it the other night, but I'm hoping he'll realize what he's missing and want a second chance. Any tips to improve the odds of that happening?How did you get back together with your ex?
yeah.... hang outside his door.....panting and begging like a lost puppy.How did you get back together with your ex?
You need to set a mental deadline for yourself....like if he doesn't realize it by Valentines Day then you're going to move on! And stick with it or you'll just be hurt.





I realize you want him to move forward, but his timing may not be the same, and the best thing for you to do is to move on, date others, etc. and IF someday the two of you end up on the same page, then so be it, and IF NOT, then you'll find out that there is someone else better suited for you. I know its hard to believe right now, but that's because you've probably been with Mr. Wrong...





Good luck!
Look i would always say that you should never break up with the intention of getting back ok?





but in ur case it sounds like u were extreamly serious with this guy n you broke up thinking he'd come back with a feeling of realization of what he is missing..





first of all give yourself a break..say about 30 days or something and after that when you yourself are feeling somewhat ok try calling him..talk to him very casually..if he asks anything like what made u call him n all say u just felt like talking to him..


make him realize that u have moved on in life and are happy..dont sound desperate..sound very casuall n dont talk about the past relationship u shared with him..








soon u will see him feeling jealous..and take advantage of that..dont do anything which will make u sound desperate and when u see him sinking in your sweetness thats the time u have to take advantage of...


and u will see urself back together..








but if this doesnt work then i think he is not intrested in you and u should just give up and move on in life..








BEST OF LUCK..HOPE YOU BOTH GET BACK..
Don't ever break up with somebody for the purposes of getting them back. Most people assumed when a breakup happened, it happened for a very valid reason and that it's over.





I would suggest moving on. If you weren't ready to move on you should have not broken up.
since u broke it off...then i am guessing that he is not gonna want to get back together for a while...but if he really likes ya then he will be begging to come bak and saying that he will b a better man. and he will say that he is willing to to move fw. with the relationship!
There are no 'tips'...accept he wanted a casual thing and nothing more-if after four months he was content with that, then he's not interested in anything serious with you...accept it and move on with your life.
I'd suggest checking out this blog...





http://getbacktogetherwithyourex.com/doe鈥?/a>





There's a TON lot of advice on how to win your ex back and I think it will really help you out.





Good luck and hope it helps!!!





- Katie : )
wow sounds like he wasn't really interested in the relationshship or (YOU) so you should just let him go and he doesn't sound to good for you


that's what i think. let it be
I think you need to stop being a Level 5 Clinger.





Honey, four months ain't jack.





And I am a woman.
I'd move on