It's a really touchy subject that can be very confusing. Im a hindu and to some arab cultures it's very wrong to date outside of your religion. My religion is pretty open about whom to date unless you get into the strict hindus but all in all its pretty straightforward. You can learn all you want about her culture but it wont matter to her parents because in their culture it is considered a disgrace to marry someone whom is westernized and does not follow tradition as such marrying another muslim or of their own kind. Im sorry to hear about your situation and hope you will prevail through it.
Tuesday, August 10, 2010
Is there any chance of getting back together with your ex, if you broke up because of cultural reasons?
I am American and I totally fell in love with a Kyrgyz girl. We dated for a year, and when she told her parents that we wanted to marry, they refused without even meeting me! She apologized to me, told me it was over, and since then communication has been cut off (her phone number was changed). She said that her family would be disgraced if we married, and that she had no choice but to give up love and look for someone that will make her family happy. She has contacted me several times via email expressing regret, telling me that she hates herself and maybe she will come to me. I respect that she loves her family and it's sad that she's had to make this choice. I've tried reading everything I can about Kyrgyz culture to understand how they would be disgraced by this? So confused! Am I naive to think that I still have a chance?Is there any chance of getting back together with your ex, if you broke up because of cultural reasons?
It's a really touchy subject that can be very confusing. Im a hindu and to some arab cultures it's very wrong to date outside of your religion. My religion is pretty open about whom to date unless you get into the strict hindus but all in all its pretty straightforward. You can learn all you want about her culture but it wont matter to her parents because in their culture it is considered a disgrace to marry someone whom is westernized and does not follow tradition as such marrying another muslim or of their own kind. Im sorry to hear about your situation and hope you will prevail through it.adware remover computer security
It's a really touchy subject that can be very confusing. Im a hindu and to some arab cultures it's very wrong to date outside of your religion. My religion is pretty open about whom to date unless you get into the strict hindus but all in all its pretty straightforward. You can learn all you want about her culture but it wont matter to her parents because in their culture it is considered a disgrace to marry someone whom is westernized and does not follow tradition as such marrying another muslim or of their own kind. Im sorry to hear about your situation and hope you will prevail through it.
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